"Noooo....that's compatibility. If your desires aren't inherently compatible- it means you're both not, you know, compatible. And it's no one's fault." Just putting that out there for him to chew on. "compromise for a relationship is a thing but- you gotta both be in a place where it's not something big that needs a compromise. You know?"

Sometimes it just works out that way.

"Sure- want me to grab Duke's lead?"