I haven't had a chance to go buy anything for that.

And I don't want to imagine what he'd be like on a bad acid trip, thank you.

We push because we care, because we see something in the hiding that is for the detriment of those we care about. Malcolm needs out of his closet. You need to be honest with him about how you feel, because when he's done being in denial about what he wants, he'll decide he's not what you need.